Paul Okoye, the Nigerian singer better known as Rudeboy, has tackled his critics, saying “not all divorces must be toxic”.


Okoye and Anita Isama, his ex-wife, met in 2004 at the University of Abuja.

In 2021,
their marriage came under public scrutiny when a document believed to be a divorce petition filed by Anita surfaced online.

In July 2023, another court document surfaced, claiming Anita filed for divorce due to alleged infidelity.

The singer unveiled his new lover Ivy Ifeoma in December 2022.


The musician further disclosed that the pair have been together for one year.

His relationship with Ivy has continued to set tongues wagging on social media, with some users criticising him for ending his eight-year-old marriage.

In a recent post via his Instagram story, the 42-year-old singer slammed critics “looking for who to blame after a failed marriage”.


The ‘Reason with Me’ hitmaker also advised his followers to stop nursing the notion that “all divorces must be toxic”.

Okoye also hinted at possible hashtags for his wedding with Ivy.

“Some of you all wish and think all divorces must be toxic,” he said.

“You are looking for someone to blame so that you all can be entertained. Lol. #Ifeomanonso or #Ifynonso? Choose one.”


Okoye and Anita have three children together.

The singer previously claimed he had been single for four years before unveiling Ifeoma.

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