‘Harrysong beats me often because he wants a son’ — estranged wife opens up

Alexer Perez Gopa, the estranged wife of Harrysong, has opened up about her experiences in their marriage.

Harrysong married Alexer in March 2021 in Warri. Their union is blessed with two children.

The marital crisis between the estranged couple unfolded in January after their alleged WhatsApp chat surfaced on social media.

The chat showed the singer asking his estranged wife to abort a pregnancy.

In another conversation, Alexer accused Harrysong of having several side chicks, to which he admitted and claimed that they were better than her.

The alleged chat between the pair, however, prompted a statement from Harrysong.

The singer, in the statement, admitted that they were going through a marital crisis while pleading to the public to respect his family’s privacy.

Addressing the issue in a recent Instagram live session with Daddy Freeze, Alexer alleged that Harrysong abused her verbally and physically.

She claimed the ‘Reggae Blues’ hitmaker was keen on having a male child which always caused a rift between them.

The entrepreneur said anytime she complains about the alleged abuse, the singer will always taunt her by saying he “did not marry me out of love, but pity”.

“It all started when I gave birth to my second child and she became a girl. Before that, he has already been saying he wants a boy. Secondly was the cheating part that was becoming too much. Everybody will be like he is a celebrity you know before you enter. That one will not be a problem. Which is understandable. A man that cheats will come back home,” she said.

“Not the one that you will now go out to do it and bring it to my face. If I talk I will still end up being the one begging, because I want to keep the marriage. I have complained to all my family members. It has been going on and on. When he gets up and is so angry he will slap me. The amount of infections I have treated as the cause of this whole thing is too much.

“I am currently pregnant. I gave him space for one year before I conceived. He said we should keep it because he was looking for a boy. He threw me to the wall with this pregnancy. The doctor was like my breath is seizing.

“Anytime I talk he would say he did not marry me out of love. It is out of pity. That I should take anything that he gives to me.”