Men who body-shame fat women are cowards, says Lepacious Bose

Lepacious Bose, the Nigerian comedian, has described men who abandon their lovers because of their body size as “cowards”.

The comedian and actress took to her Instagram page on Wednesday to share a video of a plus-sized lady and her husband dancing on their wedding day.

Bose then accompanied the video with a lengthy post wherein she revealed that a number of plus-sized women had flooded her direct messages with stories of how they were left heartbroken due to their size.

“You see, this post is also about the fact that my dm is full, yes indeed full of heart-wrenching stories of plus size ladies (for the purpose of this discussion I shall use the word FAT, pardon my societal incorrectness). Fat ladies who have had their hearts broken by men who left them because they felt they are too big,” she wrote

She also called out some men who she said are in love with their plus-sized partners “but are also afraid of what the world might say.”

“(The annoying part is most of these mumu men met the ladies fat ooo and they liked/loved them) Let me tell you something, a whole lot of men love fat women, yes! They love the warmth, the flesh, the feel of the lush thick thighs, some even love the stretch marks!” Bose said.

“Unfortunately most of them are cowards, they love these women but do not have the guts to openly stay with them. Eventually, they leave them because of what ‘people will say’ because their friends and family members feel the ladies are too big and therefore inappropriate.

“Of course because these uncles are wimps they can not fight for these women, for what they truly want/desire. Oshisko! They cave in because they are wimps, they give up the love they want and go for the ‘socially acceptable’ woman.. most of them end up miserable but hey.. Congratulations to them ooo! Am sorry but I love their misery.”

She added that it takes only a “strong and real” man to love a plus-sized lady.

“It takes a strong man, a real man to love a fat woman, it takes an extra man to openly love her, it takes a man and a half to ignore the naysayers and freaking marry her! Kudos to all the strong men who are not afraid to love fat girls, may your bank account never lose weight!” Bose added.

“Dear fat girl, if you want to lose weight, go ahead; do it! However do it for yourself, your health, your choice….. but never to keep a man!

“You see, if he’s not ready to fight for what he really wants then he’s not man enough for you…. Pls let him go!
If he loves to be with you but wants to hide you from the world pls RUN!”

Bose, who was formerly overweight, had trimmed down a few years ago to achieve the body shape of her dream.

 

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