Victoria Adeyele, the reality star better known as Vee, has opened up about her approach to dating and relationships.
In a video shared on social media, the former BBNaija housemate revealed that her primary mission is to avoid getting pregnant by the “wrong man” out of wedlock.
The 29-year-old attributed her current single status not to a lack of opportunity, but to a conscious strategy of self-preservation.
She explained that the approach is driven by a keen awareness of her own emotional limits.
Vee also disclosed that her resolve is partly fuelled by the challenging Lagos dating scene and a past negative online experience.
“I am a 29 years old living in Lagos. Dating is hard. But dating in Lagos… There is a tweet that still upset me till this day. I am not going to put myself in a position that a man would tell me such,” she said.
“It is my mission in life to avoid the wrong man getting me pregnant. It is my own personal mission. It may not be your own mission. I am not to say I am better than the women that have been in that position.
“It is simply because I know myself. I know what I am capable of. And I avoid certain situations that would put me in a state of psychosis.
“I am passionate about not getting f**ked over. If that is what stops me from finding unapologetic love. I am stubborn. I am hard headed but I am not stupid.”
The reality star described her dating life in terms of calculated decisions rather than chance. She also said she believes in learning from signs rather than personal experience.
“I need to make sure that when it comes to choosing partner, I need to choose right. You cannot know someone 100%, but you can see the sign. I do not need to experience something before I know it is not meant for me,” she added.
“If I say choosing a boyfriend now, not even a life partner, is important. I have two more trials left in me.”
Vee rose to fame after participating in the 2020 BBNaija show.
During the show, Vee formed a romantic relationship with Neo Akpofure, her colleague.
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