I felt violated by Kemen, TBoss finally addresses BBNaija controversy

Tokunbo Idowu, popularly known as TBoss, on Sunday said she felt violated by Kemen on the Big Brother Naija reality show.

Weeks after the conclusion of the show, the most talked about topic on the reality show is still being talked about.

Kemen was infamously disqualified for inappropriately touching TBoss while she was sleeping.

Addressing the issue on Sunday while making an appearance on Rubbin Minds, a Channels TV show hosted Ebuka Obi-Uchendu, TBoss said: “I considered Kemen a friend. He was my go-to guy”.

“He was my buddy, my muscle. He encouraged me. He motivated me. So for what happened to have happened considering all the people that look up to me, it was sad,” she said.

“I was angry. I was humilated and I did feel violated but I don’t play the victim card. I honestly think that the decision that Big Brother took was the only decision that could have been taken.”

Since the Big Brother Naija show ended, TBoss said she has run into Kemen few times and had to restrain herself from getting violent.

“I have seen him a few times but I really don’t want to talk to him because honestly the day you (Ebuka) came into the house with Karen, I was thinking what would happen if I see Kemen because I thought there would be a party after then,” she said.

“I just wanted to slap him. I think I even said that but then I came out and I said you know what everyone can make mistake because I am an attractive person but then, I come out and I hear the interviews he has given, today he makes an apology and then tomorrow he comes out to say TBoss knows what happened and that if there was no N25 million involved, hopefully she would tell the truth.

“What truth are you talking about? You are contradicting yourself. And then you are calling me? He has called me like over 15-20 times but I don’t want to speak to him. I am not ready because if I talk, I would say the wrong things. I want to calm down.”

TBoss further noted that it was insensitive of comedian AY Makun to makes jokes about the incident during his AY Live Easter show.

She said: “I totally feel it was insensitive of him. It was very insensitive because like I said, I have a lot to say.

“This incident was on camera. People saw it and people still chose to make light of this situation and make a joke out of it. If I consent to you touching me, that doesn’t mean I consent to you kissing me or going the extra mile.”

TBoss was the second runner-up on the show.